Gabe,

Here's another seasoned Venusian weighing in on the hair issue. Don't do it, dude. Every time I see a man that's used that stuff, I can spot 'em a mile away! Gray is cool...trust me on this!

I would also chime in on what Lost said about shoulders. Good shoulders, good pecks and a nice a$$. I'm betting your behind is getting pretty perky these days with all that running. Don't get pleated pants--get flat front pants. They show off that shapely behind. Definitely go for some different colors too. Pick up a copy of GQ or some other men's magazine and check out what's hot for this season. Also, check out the website for "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy". They always dress men VERY well on that show, so I'm sure you could get some pointers there, too.

Rawk on, dude!

P.S. Despite what Lost said, most women are not above a little checking out of the package, if you get my drift, so stay away from boxers. Go with something that's going to, well, ummm, package the package well! Another reason to stay away from pleated pants.

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