UPS showed up today and brought three books we ordered...

Resurrecting Sex: Solving Sexual Problems and Revolutionizing Your Relationship... David Schnarch PhD

I'm Not in the Mood: What Every Woman should Know About Imporving her Libido... Judith Reichman

In the Mood Again: A Couple's Guide to Reawakening Sexual Desire... Kathleen Cervenka PhD

Along with SSM, hopefully we will know enough to make headway.