If you are looking for the life ingredient that will automagically make you desire your husband, then you are wasting your time, and possibly waiting on an event that may never occur.
Michele talks about "just doing it". There is a lot of in your face basic wisdom in that statement. You will never get better until you start.
So, have you planned for your next lovemaking session which should be occurring in the next 24 hours or less?
You will never get good at sex unless you practice. Unless you practice, you will never discover what parts of sex you like. Have you ever watched your husband's face when he is having an orgasm?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.