Quite welcome. There are a lot of good articles on this site.
Quote: I have read the first few paragraphs and already feel it!! This lady that we saw was just letting us talk week after week with NO solutions. She looked at me on the third visit and asked me what I was going to do about whatever it was my husband had just said, and I told her that's what I was paying her for... she said she wasn't there to give me answers.... ?????????? What? $130 an hour, and she wasn't there to give me answers???
She repeated often that we would never work out; she pitied him for his lack of sexual activity, and told me I had just better do something about it. But what? That was what I thought we were there for, so she could provide suggestions/answers!!
Consider copying the details under When Therapy Hurts as that is the more appropriate area for this. BTW, at least the ex-[I hope for your sake] therapist's fees are deductible (medical).
Quote: Oh, yeah.. she also suggested that he just get me drunk and basically suggested that he take advantage of me then.
That is hardly a solution! You should complain to the consumer protection bureaucracies and her licensing authority. In my case, if I try that I walk a hair-thin line between ML and Exorcist-style projectile vomiting--a sure mood killer for both of us.
Quote: I'll continue reading this article... forwarded the link to the hubby too....
Thanks again
Good call...too bad you didn't read that before.
Now all of you know how I came up with my alias: Why Didn't IFind This Years Ago.
