I'd start by getting off the prozac and maybe trying something different like wellbutrin. The libido busting side effects of prozac and others like it have been well documented. Wellbutrin on the other hand has in some cases had the effect of INCREASING libido in some patients.
At least you're trying. But I must confess that I am always amazed at women who get "shocked and hurt" when they discover that their spouses start internet flirting/surfing when they are unhappy with the intimate side of their marriages. How reasonable is it really? "I know that you're unhappy with our love life, and while I know that I am not fullfilling your needs, I expect you to remain faithfull in all ways and continue to fullfill my own needs so that I may remain happy."
Maybe I've become too caloused to all this and perhaps even a bit unreasonable, but I have never been able to understand how one spouse can get upset/anxious/frightened over any issue that threatens their marriage, and yet not make it an absolute priority to change it at any cost. Its not that sex never crosses your mind . . . . it obviously does or you wouldn't be thinking about things enough to even bother looking for a message board on the internet. Take the energy your spending in looking for answers elsewhere and put that energy into finding the answers within yourself. By that I mean, if its too much trouble to get the motor running, then its up to you to find a way thats NOT too much trouble.
