I'm the hubby in question. I do try to help out during the day, there are some chores around the house I do on a daily basis. Also, I have been known to do yard work and such around the house. The commute is pretty bad so after being gone for 11 hours I tend to want to relax a bit and I probably could help out more. Also, I don't think I had the intention of using the anonymous sexpartner site (adultpersonals.com i believe) to actually make dates or anything like that. Due to DGA's dislike for sex I felt that somehow I was "bad" for having all these sexual feelings. Browsing the site and seeing all these women who actually confessed liking sex made me feel better about myself. And all those ads were interesting reads. Anyhow, in the first two-three years of the relationship sex was awesome and very mutual. The years after that it turned into a favor/chore for just me and something that is not mutual at all. Even though, when we do have sex DGA does have orgasms. The frequency right now is around once every 6-8 weeks.
