Quote: There is a toy at a "sex shop" that you might try. its refered to as a butterfly...basically its a small item that lays over the clitoris that is triggered to "buzz" once in a while. Some times theyre remote/radio controlled.
My suggestion might be, without telling H, use this toy on and off when youre at home to see how you react. If you think it might work, give him the control and see if he can "push your buttons"...
(google "good vibrations" and "grand opening" for places which may do a mail order business. there are others as well)
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