Quote: I am so damned madly in love with my husband, but I just have NO sex drive. I just couldn't be bothered really! It is starting to have a serious effect on things, and I'm terrified that I am going to lose him if I don't do something QUICK, but WHAT??
If you aren't encountering any "technical" problems - then the thing to do quick is - make love to your spouse.
And do so on a regular basis. Is there some reason you can't do this?
I'm a fellow LDer, by the way. So, tell us more. The more we know about your situation, the more apt our responses might be.