2much - I'm glad your evening w/your h before his trip ended so nicely.
I know that I often take it personally when my h SEEMS disinterested in me. But I am trying to remember that his disinterest most likely has nothing to do with me. That there are lots of other reasons why he may seem distant and none of them are about me or OW.
Quote: so I just decided to "love him" and let the anger go away
That is such a great concept. I think that in a way I have been trying to do this, just didn't put it in the right words. So many people don't understand, they think that because he hurt me I should be angry. But the anger doesn't solve anything. It only makes things worse. And what a great reward you received for your efforts.
