I forgot to add that if I am going to start giving H hug and kiss 2x each week, its really going to have to a concious effort. It so weird how that is...it should just come naturally... I shouldnt have to sit and think, "ok, now is a good time to go up and hug H." Do you see where I am coming from??? Right now its so easy just to not even do it that doing it is going to be very hard...how ironic is that????