Hey there Mel..been trying to get to your thread...and I will, I promise!
It's amazing how we disect every little action trying to figure out what's going on. Every little touch, move, word says so much. Before the "crisis", in my home anyway, we went about our lives with little or no consciousness. I mean, we were just at ease, calm, relaxed. I could wear my sweats if I wanted, laze around on a Saturday, etc. Now when H is around, I have to be aware of every little thing.
Funny I was just thinking about that same thing the other night! There are some days I just dont feel like "being pretty" or "always wearing a smile", so will it be ok to have those days? It better be, God knows H has them, right? If he is gonna want to be with me in the M, then he is going to have to want to be with me on my "not so pretty" days too!
You know, when you were talking about your trip and hanging out with lovey dovey couples, do you have any couples you two could go out with? Let him see how married folks are supposed to act?
We do have friends that act like real married couples. They are not the very few that are all over each other all the time. He probably got all his ideas of how a marriage was supposed to be from watching TV...hee hee...its all good on TV...but real life...YEAH RIGHT!!
I think he is finally starting to see that we are a normal, happy married couple. Now if he would only want to hug or kiss me!!
