Hi, I just read your post, very similar to my H. He gives me an occasional hug, sometimes a kiss on the cheek, but we have not had sex in alomost 6 months,and he sleeps on the couch. We are communicating well, and talking about stuff. I don't quite understand the physical distance. I get so frustrated, but my therapist told me that it will take time, and i have to be patient. It is his way of protecting himself,and even me. Until he is absolutely sure he wants our marriage saved, he will probably be like this. I try to flirt a little now and again, and he also makes comments about how I look, tells me I look good. Tonight we went shopping and he picked out a dress for me to wear to my sons graduation. It was much shorter and tightfitting then something I normally would buy, but I was thrilled that he chose it, and liked how I looked in it. I guess this is a good start. I just keep praying that one of these days he would let down his guard and want to be intimate with me again.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
