Quote: Yesterday was another great day! I just feel like we are getting so much closer! Its such a great feeling..I feel safe now...I really dont think he is going to leave! Then *secureness* of our M is finally there!
This is wonderful news and such a great post. I am happy to hear this. You (and I) need to hold on to that security, especially when we want to daoubt it. It is evident that things are taking an upturn and you (we) need to find the actions that we do and continue to do these things.
As to the physical touch, IMHO, we need to be secure that it will come in time. You might try what you suggested in letting your H know it is alright. Just monitor the results and see how he reacts. Go in with no expectations of what will happen. I need to do that more, nor expectations. You might indeed make the initiation for a first kiss goodnight, again monitor the reaction and decide if it is a right choice to do. He may indeed be waiting to see if it is alright. This may be a clue for him that it is alright.
I am glad you are seeing such great positives in your R right now.
Good for YOU!
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
