its about how he can hug someone he hardly ever sees, but for me to get a simple hug..there is just no chance. It hurt, but only for a while....
It's because hugging you would mean something to each of you, something he isn't ready to feel or have you feel. In my case, my W has touched me something like twice in the 11 months we have been separated. Literally twice, a hand on my arm twice during difficult moments. For her, touching threatens that emotional wall she has erected to protect her resolve to continue on the D path she has chosen. Perhaps it is similar for your H.
