Yes.... we neeed to remember and remember and remember that... Dedicating some time for ourselves... nt waiting for them always to feel happy... Go ahead 2much... and please remember... Your man is not the only selfish... i think most men are that kind... the use to think first and first in them... and after that in someone else (You, kids, familly, etc)... maybe they nee to see us a little selfish... a little center in ourselves... Andrea