2 much, it is what it is. We are unable to facilitate change in them if we worry about them. We can only hope for change through our change. I hear the discouragement in your H actions and plans. To what avail will getting mad be? None.
A simple statement of the difficulties of taking that much time of work, traveling in seperate cars, etc. could be helpful if done in a non angry tone and in a validative way. I do not know if it will be beneficial but best to be open with him about it and not be false about your feelings.
As to him having something on his mind, do not press it. I am sure he does. You need to check my post later today on my thread on WHAT NOT TO DO in this situation. What you want to do I did. It is not pretty and I messing up my M more through my actions. I will definitely get my A$$ chewed by everyone on this BB that is keeping up with my sitch.
Do the seemingly impossible. Work on you. Make yourself happy. "Drop the rope" with him and let him figure out what it is he wants and needs. Do not let his insensitivity or callousness towards you destroy what you are building for yourself.
Hang tough Girl!
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
