You can help me through me helping you. Define what a marriage full of love is?
What does it look like, describe it.
When you have done that how are those things being met? To me I need to do the same thing. Are the basics being met before the others can take place.
I look at your positives and they meet some of the criteria for a good relationship. I see them in yours and in mine. I want more as do you, but we know this will be a long process. How can we get there faster? I do not think we can. We need to be patient and give space. Hardest for me is the patience part. We do for us and for them unconditionaly and try and not feel slighted.
This sounds really morbid and weird but it came to me. If our S were seriously hurt and incapable of physical affection (hugging, kissing, ML) would we abandon them? I do not know if it corrolates or not, but would we love them less, do less for them, feel cheated? It is not a realistic analogy because the sitches say it is not, but food for thought.
You do so much, have endured so much, and have tried so hard. I know it will come in time. I hope mine will too.
Wishes and prayers for you.
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
