Slowly,
Your info is sound. My work needs to be separate. Thanks.

I have had another rough spell with H. He sent me a letter and told me to file or he would. This is an endless cycle. I decided to file. The court hearing is over as far as provisional orders.
This is not what I wanted or planned for my life. However, receiving letters/calls saying do what I want or I will be with OW is just not something I am able to deal with any longer. H tells me this is all my fault and there is nothing in him that needs fixed. Let him feel how he feels. H can think what he thinks. I agree to accept his opinion as an opinion. I am off the roller coaster.
I want to say I'll forever wait for him to change. I cannot give myself that luxury. I must admit I want him to love, honor and cherish me. Settling for a man that only loves himself and has no room for me is just too painful.
It hurts deep inside.
Life does indeed go on...and leaves me behind at times...
Midwest