Hey Midwest ... I am back from TN I will post more on my trip on my thread.
Here are a few things to think about friends at work. Frist of all you would need to find someone that you really trust, and I mean REALLY trust. You don't want your business being spread all over the place by a busy body. Think about finding someone that you work with but maybe not in the same department or floor or even building, example my SIL became really good friends with one of the girls that works in the dentist office in the same complex as her, while she was going through her divorce. Myself I have always tried to steer clear of friendships outside of work because you will ALWAYS end up talking about work. Even when I go out with people that I work with we start the evening out not talking about work but we end up there. I guess too it depends on what kind of friend ship you are looking for, one that will get you out and meet new people or one that will stand the test of time. There will be talk no matter what type of person that you want to become friends with, as I am sure that you are aware of rumors fly, especially if it is not true.
