Kim, I've posted and had it disappear on me. So, this will be kinda short just in case I'm learning to survive a difficult situation. No one will be the winner when this is all said and done. There will only be pain regardless of how our marriage goes from here on out. The damage from his actions is extreme. I am very sad H choses to play at a marriage rebuilding process and then go and do as he pleases. It hurts. I one day will have a success story, just not today. M