Sage, I am taking this to heart. I've made a copy to take with us, we are traveling...act as if... That means for us a spontaneous trip. My H is game and D17 says I love it when we are spontaneous with trips. Act as if everything is going well ( and a ritual in our M is this...from the honeymoon on ) I'm promising myself not to think since it seems to be getting me in trouble!! Maps in hand and we are gonna have a good time. midwest