Hi midwest - What a dilemma indeed. I think it is good that you have given the moving back together thing a bit more time.
Quote: H tonoc said I was too quiet and asked if I was struggling. Since I really want an honest relationship, I nodded yes. I just didn't want him mad. He said he'd go home. So, angrily he did. Didn't even shut the door on the way out...
If this is how he behaves over a simple request for some space, I wonder what it will be like with bigger issues
Wishing you a peaceful, reflective weekend. I too find it difficult to get the thought stoppers out when trust issues surface.