Hi Kim, We'd be glad to have you here. I'm trying to hold my own after an especially good time last week. I actually made a tiny tactical error with my H--we are separated. I let him stay one night. He said I'd have to tell him to leave because he plans to stay. Oh, boy. That makes it kinda hard for me to keep my head on straight. (the unofficial agreement was at the end of our leases we'd consider getting together which is fall.)
We need to piece our M back together but there are some issues that have to be dealt with like now. I'm no longer the maid/cook/etc. After my late night at work, I come home and he asks what is for supper. Bad question. I just asked what he'd made for us. End of conversation. I hope that was setting a boundry. Oh boy...what a dilemma. H still needs to start in some counseling... I feel all the issues of the past coming to haunt me again. I need to think how to do this right with the DB. I just need to be able to think. Midwest (typed ny name not midwest,gotta be able to think)