Quote: About your thread, your H mentioning trading sex for getting out of chores seems the opposite of what the HDH (HD, GGB, Lou, and others)have. It sounded so strange to me as as SSH. We are alys hoping that doing an extra chore will lead to something. I gusee that is "stinking thinking." Well, I sometimes get a thank you and a smile most of the time.
I have to admit that one of the main things I like about my imaginary lover Hank is that he is always doing things like building me some new bookshelves to thank me for doing his french maid costume fantasy. Since I've joined this BB, I've learned that there are a lot of women in my situation but it still feels kind of bizarro world sometimes. It's not just that society taught me that a man should want to have sex with me, it was my actual personal experience before I married my H.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
