Well, I'm not opposed to civil penalties. Maybe the spouse who cheats should have to pay a cash penalty for violating the marriage contract. OTOH, maybe a spouse who doesn't provide sex should have to pay a cash penalty for each consecutive non-sexual day after a week's grace period. Sort of like an overdue fine for a DVD.
What if there was some way that everyone in the world could tell how long it had been since you last had sex- some sort of meter on your forehead? Do you think more LD spouses would be inclined to put out more often if this were true?
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