You are right. I did go way overboard. I get riled when I see people encouraging others to take the immoral quick "fix" of adultery rather than the higher road of putting effort into their M. It has gotten so much so these days that people chosing to put work into their R are often scoffed at. You are absolutely right that it is not ours to judge. On the otherhand, gosh, people make it so darned easy to cheat.
