Quote: if I would spend less time on this BB and more time socializing with "real" people my problem would resolve itself more quickly of its own accord because, in her opinion, getting involved with someone else is the natural thing to happen to someone in my situation.
Uh, Nopkins, can I take this one? Getting involved with someone else may be natural, but it's not right. Have the ovaries/balls to end your current relationship first before going there. I've had the opportunity to go outside the marriage before and refused, because it's disrespectful to all parties, and it's just plain creepy.
