Hi, Hairdog,

I do stop by occasionally. But things are still rough. These days, when I make my intentions known, she has ready made excuses: We just did it - It's my period - etc. She must tatoo them into her dreams.

I was struck my the casualness with which the (mostly women) described their mis-matched desires. There was at least one garing exception: one woman who was ready to leave or worse.

I'm trying to take it all more or less in stride.

Paul