How often do you have sex?

[Lillieperl]

Wow. The thread on that other site is SOOOO interesting. Has anyone else read every post like I have? There are about a hundred and fifty of them! I've summarized a few for those of you who don't want to read them all.

I said above that they were all over the map, but now I think a slight majority show the woman as wanting more sex than the man. Many of the posters lament the passivity, low desire, etc., of the guy. For some this is a problem, for others, it doesn't seem to bother them.

That's one of the fascinating things about this thread: the people who are discontented are just that-- discontented. They aren't all bent out of shape about it. It helps me put things in perspective.

One guy posted and said that his W tried to "schedule" sex and that totally turned him off.

One woman wakes up virtually every morning to her H mb-ing in bed. It gets his day off to a good start, and she's fine with it.

Many women expressed a sentiment similar to this one:

There have been times when I thought I must be the ONLY woman in the world who wanted sex more often than her husband. And that all the other men in the world constantly think about sex all day (what is it, every six seconds?) and would only refuse sex, as one of my male friends put it, when in traction. I felt really...awful about wanting to have sex and being refused. And it felt like constantly.

Several women with LD husbands wondered if the guys were gay.

A handful of woman said they mb every day whether they are having sex with H or not, and quite a few other women also said they mb. One woman said

we try to make it at the very least once a week, otherwise we get cranky and mean and distant, which is no good. our drives are pretty compatible, and i don't think either of us has a problem using our go to guy, Mr. Hand, if the other one doesn't want to do it

This one was cute

We just got back from a long weekend on Kauai. We did it 13 times from Thursday to Tuesday morning. We're serious vacation fuckers. We even went to the porn shop to stock up on fun stuff! At home, I could probably go with 2 times a week.

That is also my idea of a vacation!

Another cute one

February 14th and April 20th so far this year.

We've got a 2 year old and a 6 month old.

Yes, I realize this is pathetic. But I would much rather spend my only 15 minutes a day of free time eating ice cream right out of the box and zipping through a TIVO'd episode of Desperate Housewives than doing the nasty.

JJ, this is your soul sister:

i'm 39, not married, with a sex drive as high as a kite. i've yet to find a man who can keep up with me, likely why i like dating younger men.

This post blew my mind:

I once wrote my husband an erotic short story (and can I just say, this is not easy, it was one of the most challenging pieces of writing I've ever done).

I was hoping he'd read it & get stirred up.

His response: "Don't ever show me anything like that again."

My husband gives a whole new depth to the word "prude."