Cemar – I wouldn’t be happy with that kind of a frequency either, but there were plenty of folks on there with an even lower one. What I was trying to demonstrate is that “normal” is very very variable, and whatever works for an individual couple is cool. If your desired frequency is far above your wife’s, that’s obviously not cool, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have options.
Honeypot, I’m more and more of the opinion that the stereotype of the ever-ready man and the reluctant female is simply wrong. Lotsa HD gals out there it seems! I’m glad you and your H got to that place where you weren’t counting, and hope you feel better soon and are able to get back to that place. Rooting for you that you’ll find some answers asap.
Hairdog, I was thinking of you, too … might be just the link for your W. This being an “untainted” source, and probably a good cut through society. If you get the chance show it to her.
Inherjourney, glad you found it interesting, and yay for finding a frequency both you and your H are happy with!
