Hi Pen! This was interesting; always nice to see that there are other hot blooded mamas like myself out there. Maybe this would help Hairdog's wife to see that there are indeed 30something women who like gettin busy.
When we were trying to have a baby, I could not hardly convince H to have sex with me. I took Clomid and there were certain days in which we 'had' to do it. He avoided these days like the plague for the first two children. It was literally a stroke of luck that I ovulated later than what I was supposed to and we conceived anyway. The second time I was so livid that he'd blown off the XXX days that I didn't think we'd stay married, let alone have another child together. However, my natural horniness got the best of me approx a week later and that is now D2. By the time the third pregnancy rolled around, he had lost most of these inhibitions and hangups and we not only had sex on the XXX days but for about 10 days straight just "to be sure", lol.
I pity any women out there who are trying to conceive with an LDH. It is particularly heartbreaking.
These days, I don't think we even register on the "how often" question. We had a brief spell after the baby was born in which things were semi-hot (as hot as life can be with a baby in the room with you, lol) and then I started feeling bad. Someday I hope to be putting notches in my bedpost again.