No it wasn't spam - it said forwarded from aycle, which is Andy's email address.

He is quite 'new age' and gets all these 'spiritual enlightenment' e-newsletters and my guess is he forwarded it to me because he thinks I have low self-worth, which I don't, I just have varying opinions to him.

I actually took it as an insult and have been as mad as hell all day.

Then he sent me ANOTHER email after that with the revised contact times and he wants 8.45am till 6pm on Saturdays and I said no, still FUMING, because the court order states he has her 4 hours and that is well over 4 hours.

He also has her every other weekend, I should add as well and his total time with her amounts to approx 4 days a fortnight whereas he only offered me 2 days with the other 3 and I only see them when he comes here now because the R's were damaged so much and he wouldn't agree to what I wanted.

So of course I sent him a scathing email back saying he sure as heck isn't having her till 6pm! I already agreed to him taking her camping for 8 days in June!

I feel he is taking advantage and I'm pretty fed up with the barrage of emails and phone calls he has given me the last couple of days. He says he wants to be friends but I'm not in the mood and I know I would never be able to be just a friend to him anyway.

Right now I wanted to concentrate on GAL stuff and just see him at the drop-off's and I wanted him to leave me alone the rest of the time because it's so tense between us I need my space.

Jo.