Quote: It's because of my disability. They just look at my legs and don't think I'm human. They don't see the person I am underneath.
I disagree with your view of this, Jo. I've seen a picture of you, and you are a very beautiful woman. This doesn't excuse their behavior at all, but I just highly doubt that they are seeing you as non-human. They likely see a very attractive woman who may have a possible vulnerability due to her disability.
You've received some nice advice from the others on this.