Quote: some people obviously think that because I give good advice (that's my training) I don't have any feelings.
Jo, I can feel your joy and pain by the way you write. I know you have feelings.
Rant away Jo, just don't let any one individual or a group of suggestions get you to quit. I know some of my suggestions are not always appropriate because I don't know alll of the facts or how you or Andy will react. Suggeastions are just that, not demands that you should do something as written.
Quote: This time he got scared, we are still talking. We made up with each other after that row and he's not being horrible.
Good Jo. You are making progress.
I am feeling better. Worked most of the day. You hang in there Jo. ("Hang in there" is slang for have Positive mental attitude and keep trying.