You didn't offend me. I understand where you're coming from. My H is selfish with regards to the kids, he always was, but likewise I don't compromise about them either so I am probably just as bad in a different way.
I didn't mind explaining my reasons for not pursuing legal action to you, since you put it fairly, but I objected to other people's tones on here and inferring that there's something abnormal with me for wanting to reunite all of my family.
I wouldn't be on here at all if I wanted to walk away and get even with him.
But as I said, it wasn't you. You are always polite to me even if your opinion is different, which is the point.
