Quote: If this doesn't go well, I am going to go and play in the traffic
Denim skirt Jo, wear a top "you" like.
Doing everything for "him" might be too much if "your hoped for results" don't materialize. You might think he should appreciate you going all out for him but I think that is a common flaw people have.
If I theoretically could ask Andy if what you wear influenced his reaction to you and showed him picture A, B and C each with different tops, I suspect he would say they all look nice.
Jo, just look clean, happy, self confident, and _______ fill in the blank. I don't want to see you crushed because you went all out and he failed to react the way you expected or wanted him to act.
Also, if you go all out and it fails or fizzles, you have less emotional energy to spend on the next meeting. Remember baby steps, slow and steady. I suspect the fast stuff makes Andy scared.
OG Lou PS. I am taking a lesson from you. I am dressing a little better myself. Nothing radical. Just wearing my B grade shirt instead of my D grade shirt. PPS. If you need to play in the street, mine does not have much traffic and almost everone drives less than 25 MPH, and they stop for pets in the street. Be safe Jo.
