Jo and Gabriel how do we voice an opinion if our X-es take a different opinion as an arguement? Every R of every kind will have different ideas that clash at some point. So what is the key to sucessful communication during their alien behavior?
I feel that this was the down fall to my marriage, W sweeps everything under a rug (because of her childhood), I on the other hand was taught to get the problem out in the open and get past it. My problem is I didn't learn the skills to negotiate with W, so I too swept things under the rug or if I tried to get her to see another POV I failed.
So how do we communicate to them to improve the R in the future when there are differences of opinions?
