It wasn't after a spat. He sent me a 'dear john' email after I went to my dd's ballet and I didn't do or say anything to make him do that.
For some reason he doesn't like it when I get involved with the kids.
I got angry AFTER he told me he was calling things off because he was 'too rigid' in his parenting views.
I am a really mild person normally and do not start arguments etc (in fact I am a conflict avoider) but then he sent me this unprovoked email and I was just so hurt. All I did was go to my dd's ballet and say dd1 shouldn't have earrings.
That's why I got angry, because I was so hurt he could just cut me off for doing nothing, after he said he loved me etc and 4 and a half months of dating.
But I think he regrets it and is trying to make amends now.
