The ex-ow is a bit of a problem because she tells me she isn't in a hurry to use that money to move because she is worried about leaving my girls without a female figure, yet she doesn't realise that until she moves, he never will get me involved with them so it's a bit of a vicious circle.
I do know, though, that H hates where he is living and wants to move so it can't go on forever and ex-ow tells me that whenever H visits me, he goes home and yells at her and is moody with her and irritable because he doesn't want her there, and he gets at her bf 24 also, so I can't imagine that she would put up with that forever.
That is how she guessed we were together because he was being horrible to her and everyone else in the house aside from our kids.
I was lurking on your thread, Lou - congrats on new intimacy with W! and go and get some fish as this helps with back pain!
