H turned up slightly EARLY (?) and I figured he was just dropping dd4 off but when I opened the door he just walked right in (?) and I was thinking, 'I thought this was just a drop off'.
He said 'You're looking very summery today.' (I was wearing a purple long sleeved top and a pink mini skirt).
I said something about how I never know what to wear as the weather is always changing in this country. One day it is hot, the next it is cold.
Privately, I was thinking 'Yes, he's complimenting me on my clothes again!'
He went through to my lounge and sat at my computer. I thought 'what?' because you don't normally do that to drop off a kid, do you?
I asked him how to send a pdf file, since he was sat right there and he told me I can't from my version of publisher and that he'll have to download another programme onto my computer next time he visits.
I laughed and told him I would have another angry customer as he wants his pdf document NOW. Then I pointed to all the letters piled on the floor, virtually up to the ceiling, that I have been doing this weekend. I have got up to F in the alaphabet so still have tons to do and I forgot to get labels so I'm having to hand write everyone's addresses.
He said 'OMG, that's a big job!'
Then he double checked with me what his revised times were with dd4 and I said I wanted him to have her this coming weekend because I have an appointment where I can't take her with me.
I didn't give him any details. So he asked 'Where are you going? Is it far?' I said no and gave him the name of the town. He said 'Is it that clinic thing you're doing?' (meaning the egg donation). I said yes.
I have had this horrible headache all day and he noticed me pressing on my temples, so he said
'I hope your headache goes away soon.'
I smiled at him and then looked the other way.
There was a knock at the door and it was the other dd's but when we went to let them in, they ran off, giggling!
H said he'd better go and take dd3 to ballet. This time I did NOT ask to go too, after the last time.
Then they left.
What is going on?? Do you think he's just being civil - because he sent me that 'I can't do this' email the other week and my birthday was spoiled but since then he is acting like nothing happened.
I mean, he hasn't tried it on with me or anything but he has come in the house without being invited in TWICE, he's complimenting me on my clothes, he's asking me questions about what I'm up to, messing about on my computer etc when he's just supposed to be bringing dd4 back. I don't know what to think.
Is that just civil? or does he regret that email??
