BTW, folks, DH stands for Dick Head rather than Darling Husband
My sitch:
H left me April 02. We maintained a sexual R until August 02. Totally separate and in court proceedings between August and November 02.
November 02 - I learnt DB'ing from a life-coach and it worked on H immediately. We began to date and were dating between November 02 until June 03.
June 03 - I lost our baby at 2nd trimester. He left me again and re-started court action. He found OW in November 03. I slept with various different men (that sounds terrible, I am not normally like that ).
Went dark on him from that time. Big trial in January 04 - rescheduled until April 04. In April I walked out of court after nearly 2 year battle. Did not see my kids for 8 months or him for a year from when I lost our baby (aside from Alicia, aged 2, who lives with me).
June 04 - H turns up on my doorstep saying he misses me, misses my sex etc, cries. I sleep with him to break him and OW up. Phone her,tell her everything. She and him quit their R but continue to reside in same house as she is homeless.
OW gets 24 yr old bf. I leave my H to 'stew' for a while and have a further 6 months being 'grey' (minimal contact with him and the kids).
December 04 - H says happy wedding anniversary 5 days before big D and wishes to work on the R. We talk about having a hand-fasting ceremony.
Sleep together on 30th December 04. Dating from then until now, when the other week he told me he is too rigid (on his parenting views) - basically does not want my involvement with the kids other than 2 days a fortnight contact, and sent me what was essentially a 'dear john' email.
I told him to leave me alone.
29th April the kids bring me flowers for my birthday. Me and H have a row in the street.
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