He told me that he feels good when I compliment him, and pay attention to him. I don't know why I just couldn't take the time to do these things before. He has also been telling me lately that I look pretty, etc. In the love languages book, his love language was physical touch and words of encouragement, I ignored his. Now I am starting to pay attention. We had a huge blow up a few weeks ago, and he told me that my lack of compliments and my lack of encouragement towards him made him feel worthless and lonley. We have not been intimate in over 5 months, and it is killing me! I can see how much damage I must have done to him over the years if I am feeling like this now.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
