She recommended the book: "Women Who Love Sex: An Inquiry into the Expanding Spirit of Women's Erotic Experience". Amazon link by Gina Ogden, (a psychotherapist who is on the AASECT list)
An editorial review on Amazon, "The Journal Of Sex Research" says: "A masterpiece of affirmation-refreshing, moving, and extraordinarily liberating. For sexuality professionals, for our students, patients, and clients, for anyone who loves women, and especially for any woman who loves sex (or wants to love sex), Women Who Love Sex is the freshest breath of air to come along in years."
So we have ordered it, along with "Passionate Marriage" and "Five Minutes to Orgasm every time you make love".
Re the last, I don't want to get into the speed-is-everything - or even the orgasm-is-everything - frame of mind, since either may be a simplistic approach and can also lead to performance anxiety, but I figure sometimes a quicky can be a good part of the repertoire, and it should be fun for both of us.
So here's to more fun! Doglover
There are many wise, empathetic and funny people here: you are my buddies - I'm grateful for your support.