Quote: I picked up a Laurell K. Hamilton book "Cerulean Sins" at the library - HOT HOT HOT! I will definately go back and check out some others.
I was doing some reading in the book "Hot Monogamy" the other day. The author made lists of recommendations for the LD and the HD members of a drive-disparate marriage. On the list of recommendations for the HDfolk she said we should avoid doing things like reading erotica because it will make us even more horny and thereby add pressure to the situation. This is the kind of advice which I choose to ignore because it misses the point that it's not just that HDfolk are more spontaneously horny than LDfolk, HDfolk like to do things that make them feel horny because they like feeling horny. Having a high desire to feel desire is a large part of being HD. In fact, it's probably all there is to being HD besides what amounts to hormones.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
