You mention drinking (in "this little light of mine") - I thought it increases the desire but reduces the performance.
My H is religious about drinking a glass of wine with dinner - says it's "good for the heart". It doesn't seem to affect his Libido, but may be affecting his ability, which is a problem for us.
Doglover
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