I am so sorry to hear of your sitch. You are right to kick him to the curb if you feel that he is looking at your daughter or her friends with impropriety.
I am wondering if your H is unsuccessfully hiding what a lot of men find attractive. All men should know that it is amoral to think that barely adult children are sexually attractive. For some the urge to look and pursue is there. Is it ok? Not by a long shot, but how many times a day does the average person think something that is not ok and not act on it? I'm not saying it is ok for your H to be viewing the porn he is. If he thought it was ok, he wouldn't be hiding it from you. I believe there are men that think that if the law says it's ok, then it's alright to think of an 18 year old that way. Men who don't feel they can rise to the challenge of fulfilling the needs of an experienced woman often resort to impressing barely adult girls with shiny cars and a few dollars.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
