Slowly, Hi! I'm tossing in my 2 cents for you to ponder.
Quote: I know, its up to me to change the dynamics. But darn it, when will he do something
Slowly, did he talk to you after getting back from his trip to area OW is from? I would want to know if he saw, talked or anything with her. I would be unhappy until I knew these answers. Is this part of what you are in a funk about? I really hope this is now a nonissue. However, men are from Mars and if he forgot to ease your mind about this, it could be an issue. Don't relax your boundries because the hurting is worse the second time around. Take care of Slowly. Build up yourself so you can give to NG again. Are you spending QT with him? I am giving you advice I didn't follow myself and wish I had...be true to yourself Slowly, it is important. Enjoy the holiday Midwest
