Hi Slowly, your post touched home with me as I feel exactly the same way. When will H do something? We were doing so well and communicating better, but the last few days it just feels like we're creating the marriage we had before the a. It sucks, I know. I don't understand why sometimes they are just happy with peaceful (when there's so much under the surface), when they could have so much more if they just tried to come out of their shell a little and contribute to the R. I get so tired of being the one who changes the dynamics too. I mean, he's the one who turned our lives upside down, shouldnt they have to help make it right side up again?!
Sorry for venting on your bb.. I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. I'm planning on doing something nice and positive for ME this afternoon.. gonna get a pedicure and forget about the R and turn off my cell phone! Whatever effort you'd take to get him out of his funk, maybe you can spend that time and energy to make yourself happy right now? Do something just for YOU!
