Hi Slowly, I don't know what I could possibly add in the way of suggestions, as always I'm in awe of how well you handle things.
I do think it's a huge positive though that NG was/is able to open up and share those concerns with you. I am envious, I have to admit, and I sure admire the way you handled it. I'm so afraid I will have permanently shut my H down, and headed him even more back to ow, because of my "losing it" episode.