I agree too, when he's noodling over about the OW R, let it stay separate from yours. All you can do is validate his feelings, and don't try to solve anything. Just listen.
After a while he'll get through that pain and then perhaps turn the spotlight back to your R.
In the meantime I'd be very pissed off and commend you for your work, just get pissed off somewhere else and put on your game face for him right now. Fake 'til you make it and keep posting!
Do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got.
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